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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 03:29

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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What I need from you?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do Trump supporters believe Trump should deport the immigrants? These people you call "illegal immigrants" have lived here for many years, they have houses, jobs, how can you think they will just go back to their country, where they have nothing?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why didn't Taylor Swift do Taylor Swift (Taylors version)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

MAGAs are becoming unhinged and violent about Musk being called the United States President. If MAGAs think Trump is the Commander in Chief, why aren’t MAGAs blaming Trump for what DOGE is doing to Americans?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.